Wednesday 11 February 2009

Thank a feminist!

The following has been stuck on the wall next to my desk at work for the last couple of years – I have often quoted parts of it when talking to friends who think that feminism is nothing to do with them (both male and female friends).

I find it quite frustrating because feminism is actually fundamentally about basic human rights and freedoms, far more then most people realise – and feminism impacts on everyone all the time. Every day we need to thank feminists for the fact that our generation lives the way it does!


If…
... you can vote, thank a feminist.
... you get paid as much as men doing the same job, thank a feminist.
... you went to college instead of being expected to quit after high school so your brothers could go because "You'll just get married anyway," thank a feminist.
... you can apply for any job, not just "women's work," thank a feminist.
... you can get or give birth control information without going to jail, thank a feminist.
... your doctor, lawyer, pastor, judge or legislator is a woman, thank a feminist.
... you play an organised sport, thank a feminist.
... you can wear trousers without being excommunicated from your church/community or run out of town, thank a feminist.
... your boss isn't allowed to pressure you to sleep with him, thank a feminist.
... you get raped and the trial isn't about your hemline or your previous boyfriends, thank a feminist.
... you start a small business and can get a loan using only your name and credit history, thank a feminist.
... you are on trial and are allowed to testify in your own defence, thank a feminist.
... you own property that is solely yours, thank a feminist.
... you have the right to your own salary even if you are married or have a male relative, thank a feminist.
... you get custody of your children following divorce or separation, thank a feminist.
... you get a voice in the raising and care of your children instead of them being completely controlled by the husband/father, thank a feminist.
... your husband beats you and it is illegal and the police stop him instead of lecturing you on better wifely behaviour, thank a feminist.
... you are granted a degree after attending college instead of a certificate of completion, thank a feminist.
... you can breast feed your baby discreetly in a public place and not be arrested, thank a feminist.
... you marry and your civil human rights do not disappear into your husband's rights, thank a feminist.
... you have the right to refuse sex with your husband, thank a feminist.
... you have the right to keep your medical records confidential from the men in your family, thank a feminist.
... you have the right to read the books you want, thank a feminist.
... you can testify in court about crimes or wrongs your husband has committed, thank a feminist.
... you can choose to be a mother or not a mother in your own time not at the dictates of a husband or rapist, thank a feminist.
... you can look forward to a lifespan of 80 years instead of dying in your 20s from unlimited childbirth, thank a feminist.
... you can see yourself as a full, adult human being instead of a minor who needs to be controlled by a man, thank a feminist.

1 comment:

Jigna said...

I could not agree with you more, there are so very many reasons to thank a feminist, the scary thing is when you read that list how many of those things are still not clearly available to all women?

I read this interesting Cif, sort of related because when you think about feminism you may automatically think about woman v. man, but like I have said before sometimes talking about female empowerment can challenge not only many men but also many women, a woman's worst enemy can be a woman?.....something like that anyway!

http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2009/feb/10/gender-religion

This whole issue also relates to that film I have been ranting on about "He's just not that into you"

And here is another Cif on the topic of this film.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2009/feb/10/hes-just-not-that-into-you

One of the comments points out that the book was co-authored by a woman and the film was produced by women, like I said sometimes women can be a woman's worst enemy.

The film, is a whole other issue, I mean is this what woman kind needs another film on how to "bag" a man, cos that is the only way to validate your entire life, seriously!?

Thanks Dhara! I will print out and pin up on my wall also!